Your clothes speak before you do. Clothing is another form of nonverbal communication and it communicates within the first 3 seconds of your first impression.

The Casual Loungewear Look

Wearing loungewear to work is a no no. While many people love their Vuori and Athelta clothes, these items read as very relaxed and casual. You might think, “I want to look relaxed and casual”, but these looks don’t communicate professionalism or ambition. They blend into the tech scene but don’t show that you’re looking to grow or advance, which can unintentionally keep you associated with the same role or level. This is often where people might feel like their wardrobe truly reflects who they are now, but not where they want to go. These looks may suggest it’s time to align your goals and your wardrobe

The Summer All Year Look

These looks communicate a slightly more put-together and polished look, but they are still very casual. They feel approachable, playful, and fun, yet don’t fully convey professionalism or forward momentum.These outfits show your wardrobe may need more clarity;  you’re comfortable where you are, but you are not intentionally dressing for where you want to go. 

The Tech Starter Look

These outfits feel casual and modern, but they could still benefit from a bit more intention. Adding a hoodie or jacket elevates the looks and shows polish without sacrificing comfort. It is time to refine, roundout, and complete your look.

The Suited Look

These looks can feel out of place in the tech environment. While they do signal professionalism, they no longer align with the context and can read as overdressed or disconnected. Instead of helping you blend in, it may create distance from the culture around you. This is often a sign that your style needs recalibrating.  

What People Are Reading

Clothing acts as a shortcut for the brain. It helps people make quick assumptions about how prepared, credible, and self-aware someone appears.

You aren’t just being seen for what you’re wearing, you’re being read for how settled you seem in the environment you’re in.

Context Matters

The same outfit can work well in one setting and feel wrong in another.

The most effective outfits aren’t driven by trends, they’re chosen with context in mind, where you’re going, what role you’re stepping into, and how you want to be received.

When clothing fits the environment, it supports your presence instead of competing for attention.

When Perception Starts Requiring Effort

If you are navigating situations where first impressions feel heavier than they should, Abby Young Styling works with individuals and brands to refine visual presence so what you are wearing matches the context you are in. You can learn more about working together or book a private strategy call here.

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